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Livro das emoções para os pais. Campo Grande: Editora Inovar, 2019, 67 p.
ISBN: 978-65-80476-06-0
CDD – 150
Editora Inovar
www.editorainovar.com.br
79002-401 Campo Grande – MS
Dedicatória
Dalai Lama.
Apresentação
Este livro foi escrito para as mães e pais, resultado de algum tempo de
emoções, mas mesmo com tantos estudos sobre esse assunto, há ainda
dedicação que doamos diariamente, talvez nem tenhamos recebido. Sim, tem
corroborar suas atitudes, e é justamente essa segurança interna, que irá ser
com diversão, isso trará muito benefício, fazendo que nos torne mais
resilientes e empáticos.
pensamentos.
Tudo o que a Malucha faz sempre envolve muito carinho e amor! Esse e-book
traz perguntas que estimularão o autoconhecimento dos pais e muitas delas
revelarão qualidades e habilidades que estavam adormecidas ou nem mesmo
eram conhecidas! Aproveitem a leitura e a escrita ativa para construírem suas
melhores memórias!
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Que lembranças você guarda de quando era criança?
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O que você sabe de seus avós paternos?
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O que você mais gostava de fazer com seus pais no seu tempo livre quando
criança?
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Como era a casa que vocês moravam?
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Quais os professores que mais você lembra?
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Quem foi seu (sua) primeiro namorado (a)? Como ele era?
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Você teve muitos relacionamentos? Alguém partiu seu coração? Como você
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Sua família conversava com você sobre namoro e sexo? Quem conversava
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Quais foram seus pensamentos ao terminar o terceiro ano do ensino médio?
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Você fez faculdade? Como decidiu sobre seu curso? Como foi a faculdade?
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Existem diferenças entre quem você era quando adolescente e quem você é
hoje? Quais?
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O primeiro passo quando se fala em emoções deve ser o
autoconhecimento, e isso nada mais é que o conhecimento de si
mesmo, das próprias características, sentimentos, inclinações. E
isso é contínuo e mutável. O quanto você se conhece?
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O que me ajuda a seguir em frente nos momentos difíceis?
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Minha autoimagem
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Os pontos que eu poderia melhorar são:
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Nós somos as nossas histórias, somos um pouco de tudo que já nos
aconteceu.
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A vida é feita de decisões e motivações, se o medo de decidir nos
impede de fazer nossas escolhas, ficamos presos em dúvidas, cheio
de ânsias e angústias.
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Nossos valores são todas as características que temos como parte
da nossa personalidade e que determinam nosso comportamento
em relação a nós, aos outros e ao mundo e está relacionado ao
que realmente importa para nós.
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A inteligência emocional se traduz na possibilidade do ser
humano de aprender a lidar com as próprias emoções e usufruí-
la em benefício próprio. Aprender, também, a compreender os
sentimentos e comportamentos do outro. A importância da
inteligência emocional é para a vida. Sua essência se dá quando
conseguimos conciliar o lado emocional e racional do cérebro,
neutralizando as emoções negativas, as quais produzem
comportamentos destrutivos e, então, potencializa as emoções
positivas para gerar os resultados desejados.
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Eu tenho nojo de
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Como você lida com seus erros
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O que você tem feito para ter prazer em viver?
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Como você gosta que outros demonstrem o que sentem por você
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Como você enfrenta as pessoas que tem dificuldade em lidar?
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Como você costuma demonstrar gratidão
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A maternidade é a experiência pessoal de dar a luz a uma
criança. A mãe já estabelece vínculos que se iniciam ainda
durante a gestação. Uma experiência repleta de aventuras,
angústias, descobertas e realizações.
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Quais as coisas mais importantes que você quer ensinar a seus filhos?
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O que você tem feito para que seu filho aprenda, o que você acha importante
para viver?
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Como acho que os outros veem meu filho?
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Quais exemplos negativos passo para meu filho
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Quais as coisas que fazem juntos e diverte muito seu filho ?
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Você usa algum tipo de chantagem emocional para conseguir algo com seu
filho? Que tipo? E o que acha que ele aprende com essa chantagem?
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Vocês brincam juntos? Que tipo de brincadeiras? O que você pensa sobre
isso?
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Como é o ritual de acordar
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Existe muita diferença entre o que você gostaria que ele visse você, e o que
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Quando não gostamos de algo em nós, não adianta colocar a
responsabilidade na forma em que fomos criados, no meio que
crescemos, ou até mesmo no mal que foi nos feito algum dia.
Podemos mudar o que não gostamos mudar o que não nos faz
feliz.
Pensando no futuro...
entram:
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As coisas que ainda quero fazer são:
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Lições que eu aprendi:
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Escreva uma carta de amor para si
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Escreva uma carta para Deus
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O que eu posso fazer hoje para ser uma pessoa melhor amanhã
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Orientações para dias ruins
- Meditação;
- Exercícios físicos;
- Caminhada;
- Lembre-se dos seus sonhos, e como você deveria agir em direção a eles;
- Pense em 3 motivos que hoje te deixam feliz apesar desse dia ruim;
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Orientações finais
A verdade é que não aprendemos a ser pais, não estudamos para isso,
esquecemos que se nós não estivermos bem conosco, não iremos conseguir
sermos bons pais. Talvez isso seja difícil de ser combinado na correria da
vida cotidiana, mas é necessário para uma educação mais tranquila e plena
no futuro adulto.
consegue ensinar passar por um problema e seguir senão vivenciar. Pais que
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autocontrole. É necessário que os pais validem seus sentimentos, respeitem
o que sentem para pode fazer o mesmo com o casamento e com as emoções
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SOBRE A AUTORA
São Braz, Coach Vocacional pelo Instituto Maurício Sampaio, KidCoach pelo
Contatos:
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Email: psicomalucha@gmail.com
Instagram: @psicomalucha
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